Tell em all I said Hi, hope you’ve been well. You’ve been asleep while I’ve been in hell.
Amy Shark – I Said Hi!
Tell em all I said Hi, have a nice day. I’ll be just fine don’t worry bout me.
I recently heard this song for the first time, and I had never heard of this talented Australian.
I mean Amy Shark may not be the most fortunate of names now after the global pinkfong success of Baby Shark, or maybe it will make her more memorable.
I misheard the Lyric at first and thought it was “Tell your mom I said Hi” which really made no sense. Had it been a male vocal then it could have been a totally different story.
Anyway, enough of my rambling about the inspiration behind this post. I guess I’d better write about what I really wanted to cover. I don’t think it will be easy so bear with me. I will endeavour not to make it a mindless rant.
‘Tell em all I said Hi’ – The fact is, that you don’t need to. They are probably reading, or maybe one of them is and they will start the jungle drums beating.
I still hear the whispers now, almost 12 months on.
I still see the signs. Unwittingly blocked by people I have interacted with, purely on the timeline. Why? Because someone that believed they knew me told them to.
Twitter is a big place, but it’s also a small place. You never fully know who’s behind a screen, and even when you do know, you don’t “know” them, you know what they want you to see. That’s why I am careful about who I trust, because even people you have spent time with and looked into the whites of their eyes, aren’t always as they seem.
Make no mistake, ‘some’ people absolutely will use whatever they can against you. I was shocked to see a name from my past appear today. Someone I once considered a friend, who decided to take sides over something she knew very little about.
It knocked me for six, because yes, even twelve months on, they are still there. Still trying to destroy me.
They believed I threatened them. I didn’t.
They said they had contacted the police about me and these threats. They didn’t. How do I know? Because I contacted the Met police on 101 myself and asked them how I could get my laptop and mobile checked over a case that had been brought against me. There was no case, it was an agenda, to back up what they were saying about me.
I had ranting videos about me, threads with my images and personal details shared. They thought they were doing people a service. Obviously so did twitter as they left my details there for anyone to see.
I had a parody account set up in my name, with my pictures. There just to annoy and troll people pretending it was me. What did twitter do when this account was reported. MADE ME prove that I was actually me. Unbelievable! I did and the account went.
Still though, every so often, I get a nudge to remind me that they are there and still watching. A friend I had spoken to in public, got a DM from an anonymous account asking her to “Calm the sex chat down as David is my otherhalf” If it wasn’t so unbelievably freakish it would be funny.
If only I had an “Other half” or even some sex chat!
Then a comment on my blog, claiming to be from one of my good friends, blowing up at me because I had given them the impression that I was interested in them, but everybody knew who I was, and I quote “shagging” ..
Sadly, once again they either at best underestimated the friendships I had formed, or at worst just wanted to stir up trouble between two innocent bystanders. Again, if it wasn’t so batshit mental, it would be funny.
The funny thing is, those around you always claim to talk about how important mental health is. The IP addresses of all of the above have been logged, just in case I ever need them. I suspect the threats that you claimed were from me, were probably from someone you know to make it look more authentic.
I am not the kind of person to make threats. I am the kind of person to walk away and never look back. Maybe that was your problem in the first place.
So, If you are reading, why not exercise one of these two options.
Either GROW UP and leave me and those who I interact with well alone. Let people judge me on how I am with them rather than how you and your ‘friends’ perceived me 12 months ago. Or GROW A PAIR and tell me what you want. An apology? What? My DMS are unlocked. My number hasn’t changed…